|CHAKRA TWO: GENITALS: SEX, SENSUALITY,
PHYSICAL EFFECTS: Bladder
troubles, irregular or painful menstrual cycles, miscarriages,
impotency, bed wetting, knee, menopause symptoms, knee pain,
constipation, colitis, dysentery, diarrhea, incontinence, hernias,
sterility, infertility, endemtriosis, vaginitis, vaginismis,
sexually transmitted diseases, yeast, frigidity.
AREAS AFFECTED: large intestines, lymph circulation,
appendix, abdomen, upper leg, sex organs, uterus, bladder, knees
PERSONALITY TRAITS: A healthy, fully functioning "genital"
personality has Zen-like fluidity. The genital blocked person
is sometimes conflicted, wants to open up to be free at times,
closed at other times. Sometimes she or he wants to be free,
independent and unafraid while struggling with the parts of
themselves that desire to be secure.
|In men, the compulsion for a man to demonstrate
his masculinity by thrusting, forceful lovemaking can contribute
to genital armoring which manifests as a hardening of the penis.
Sometimes men acquire an attitude of sexual greed which needs
repeated genital stimulation. The story below illustrates what
can happen when these issues are not addressed and get out of
Sasha and I once had a telephone interview with a prospective
client who had been labeled a "sex addict" by previous
therapists because he masturbated constantly, frequented prostitutes
and got caught cheating on his wife with his mistress. His need
for continual genital stimulation led him to masturbating in his
corporate office and in the restrooms of planes when he traveled.
He lost his high-paying executive position as a CEO with a major
corporation when an employee walked in on him as he was ejaculating.
His wife was threatening divorce and taking the kids, but was
willing to give him a second chance if he stopped. He felt helpless
to cease his self-destructive behavior and was terrified he would
get caught again. He never showed for his appointment with us.
PSYCHOLOGICAL: Center yourself and
master your sexy and conservative voices. Access, identify, cathart
and reprogram abuse, incest, rape and molestations.
PHYSICAL: Stroke the womans sacred sector,inner,
belly-side vagina from pubic bone to orafice. Help her focus her
full attention on her genitals so she can accept them and learn
how they feel. Many times there will be burning or areas that
are numb. Hold your fingers on that spot and encourage her to
emote and rescript self-limiting decisions she remembers when
you stroke her. Then she will, with great pleasure, respond to
your stroke. She ejaculates. Amrita springs from its urethral
When a woman is healed, her vagina becomes soft, pliable, naturally
yielding and welcoming. The vaginal muscles become elastic and
responsive to the penis as they pulse, caress and massage the
lingam, naturally expanding to receive and contracting to embrace.
Women manipulate the mens first and second chakra. Lovingly
massage around and inside the genitals. A man too, regresses,
releases pent-up emotions and learns alternative behaviors which
better serve him now. Help him transform pain into pleasure.
When the man is healed, his lingam becomes less stiff. When erect,
it is vibrantly alive, warm and flexible. He now feels increased
sensitivity in the lingam and is able to feel more without ever
increasing stimulation. This allows him to relax more in your
lovemaking. Eventually hell be able to feel pulses.
Learn how to receive. As you discover how to love and accept yourself,
you become whole and healed so that you can freely enter loving
with another person. Now that you have released, expressed and
allowed new programs to do into your psyche, you can be fully
present for a union with your beloved and the ecstatic connection
of your sacred lovemaking.
Enjoy a wider range of sensuality. Join genitals. Men, nestle
your penis, limp or erect, into your lover. Men, decide whether
you ejaculate. Retain your ejaculate and pull your energy up,
when you chose, instead of squirting. Its easy.