When you feel ejaculation pending,
shift your focus from your genitals to your hands, eyes, lips
and concentrate on using your fingers, mouth and gaze to delight
your lover. Pull energy up from your genitals as you squeeze
your pubococcygeal, diaphragm and throat muscles. Picture energy
flowing from your crown into your lovers.
Genitals that are healed feel more alive, allowing your consciousness
to meet where they are joined. Sensations generalize from a
tiny area to the whole area. Every movement becomes sensitive,
sending waves of bliss up both your spines. You surrender mental
control and allow the energy to consume you, take you to higher
levels of awareness, into timelessness, deeper connectedness
and universal consciousness.
Together you have moved into areas where you are now free of
fear and identification with your past traumas. You are well
on your way to removing habitual tendencies to contract. You
rediscover instinctual areas of loving oneness, bliss and ecstasy.
You feel your unity and it has internalized in every cell in
COUPLES BLESSING: Connect and pleasure her second chakras
with touch, intention and breathing techniques. Press your genitals
against hers. Say, "I love you at your yoni and bless your
sensuality, creativity and sexuality." Chant VAM.